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Blossom's Buzz

3/25/2016

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It's World Doula Week! Follow the hashtag #WorldDoulaWeek everywhere to see where and how doulas around the world are helping families to improve the birth process around the world. More on Monday!
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                                                                                         Sage Moon Doula

Among other benefits, doulas help to decrease maternal and infant mortality rates. Black mothers, therefore, would benefit great from having access to doulas, since they continue to die during pregnancy, childbirth, and recovery, at much higher rates than other women.
                                                                                   Black Mothers Are Dying

The American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology (ACOG) Has New Recommendations for exercise and improving birth outcomes that may also help mothers and babies.

Maya Rudolph drops some golden nuggets on pregnancy, breastfeeding, and working as a new mom... and sweet sentiments about her own beloved mother. ​
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                                                                                         Maya Rudolph

Jack Newman's explanation (and video) of Late Onset Decreased Milk Flow is full of great information for discouraged moms and befuddled lactation consultants.

This has been a tough two weeks in our home. On the very last day of a lazy Spring Break, my daughter ran a high fever, and was subsequently diagnosed with the flu. We had all been languishing around my parents' home for the week, so I didn't realize that she was feeling wimpy. We kept her out of school for the week, but she could not break her fever, or her need to be no more than 8 inches away from me at a time. It was suffocating and I felt powerless. My daughter is not sick often, but whenever she has been, I've known that I could just nurse her to make it all better. We've been fully weaned for 6 weeks, and although we were both (more or less) ready, there have been many moments over these last 2 weeks that I wish we were still going. I can remember telling my La Leche group that I wouldn't know how to parent without breastfeeding. I was half-kidding, but this is definitely one of those times that I feared. We made it through, then I read this, and cried. 1007 Days of Breastmilk

And then this made us smile! Couple Accidentally Texts Strangers About Newborn; Strangers Show Up With Gifts
As a lactation educator, counselor, and influencer, I really try not to associate breastfeeding
with sex in any way. I usually cringe and correct when others do it. However, I must admit that this analogy between the two first time experiences is pretty spot on!
The First Time Is The Weirdest by Abby Norman (Right on about Formation too, but I digress).


March is National Nutrition Month
Learn about the impact of dairy consumption on your health.

Thanks to the Twitterverse, I was able to "participate" in the 11th annual conference on ​Breastfeeding and Feminism. It looked to be an amazing and inspiring conference from afar. We will be in attendance next year. Here are a few takeaways:
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What are you buzzing about?!

​Have a great week! Be well!
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Blossom's Buzz

3/18/2016

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The birth community has a lot to acknowledge during the month of March. We're celebrating women, nutrition, developmental disabilities, birth psychology, and pregnancy after loss. There are so many amazing stories of courage, faith, hope, and love in each of these areas. Blessings to all of the families touched, including this special family that shared the story or their child's rare condition and short life; and this mom who apologized to all of her friends with babies in the wake of her dealing with her own miscarriage.

In the world of postpartum depression, we learned this week that PPD may lower fertility levels and cause women to have fewer children. In the case of mom and writer Gemma Hartley, she says that her postpartum depression made her a better mother, in the long run. Can you relate?

Parents get real this week, as they describe why they are so exhausted, and one reason is that babies are not meant to sleep through the night, as everyone without a current infant imagines they should. It just doesn't happen on a normal basis. Sorry. Stop asking. Parents are also busting myths about sex after kids, and even more specifically, safe and comfortable sexual positions after birth. Rule number one: wait until you've been cleared by your provider to experiment with these.

Having sex or feeling sexy after birth can be a challenge for the mother if she is not in love with her postpartum body. It's a process and every mother has to write her own story. Read why it's OK to struggle with your body image and still love yourself. Body image is significant in all phases of pregnancy and motherhood, but how beautiful is this story of a woman who was able breastfeed while overcoming the demons of sexual abuse? Powerful.

And then, this happened! A basketball fan, enjoying the Big 12 Semi-Finals... and feeding her child... behind the coach... captured by ESPN! Rock On!
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We talk about breastfeeding a lot. There is something fascinating, amazing, or just plain weird to discover about breastfeeding every day. Check out these weird facts about the state of breastfeeding in America. To find out more about the specific laws in the states where you live or travel, visit Nationwide Nurse-in And Breastfeeding Laws' fan pageand save a visual to your phone to be presented if you're ever confronted by an over-zealous, misinformed citizen or officer of the law.

More often than not, if you're permitted to be in a space, so is your breastfeeding child. Take it from Bryan and Caryn Canatella, who partnered with Latched Mama for another great Dr. Seuss breastfeeding parody.
At The Park, In The Dark

Clearly, we love moms who help to normalize extended breastfeeding, like Sophie Grégoire Trudeau who Speaks To Katie Couric About Breastfeeding Her 2-Year-Old Son. Supermodel Karolina Kurkova made an appearance on Amazon’s new livestream fashion and beauty show “Style Code Live" to chat about her Victoria’s Secret days, the public breastfeeding debate, and plus-sized models.

Because Science... 9 Things That Shape Your Existence Before Your Birth

Finally, my poor daughter has been sick since the last day of her Spring Break. Fortunately, she's rarely ill, so I always forget the rules of how much of which medicines are safe to use when. Naturally, I assumed that I would be one of the moms who never had a sick child, and if by chance she did catch the cooties from another child, I would treat her with essential oils, raw foods, yoga, and hydrotherapeutic compresses. Of course, all of that went out the window with her first ear infection, and her second fever, a year later- which came completely out of nowhere, and led to a febrile seizure. Scary stuff. My daughter was diagnosed with the flu, and outside of the widow to be treated with the common anti-viral, which isn't exactly safe for toddlers anyway. Upon the physician's recommendation, I continued to treat the fever, and would prepare to treat any other symptoms as they arose, as there were not any others at the time. All of this to say, that I am happy that I refreshed my knowledge on giving pain and fever reducing medications vs cough and cold medications to children. Learn more about what's happening to your sick child here, and the differences in medication here. Try these additional safe remediesinstead.

Be well and have a great week!
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Blossom's Buzz

3/11/2016

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Life is good! There's always so much to celebrate! As Women's History Month continues, we love these stories and images from around the world, about birth traditions, breastfeeding, and baby wearing. Let us know if you love it too!

March is also National Nutrition Month! Check out this important information about how the amazing vitamin D during pregnancy decreases the risk of multiple sclerosis in offspring. It is fascinating how prenatal nutrition affects children later in life. More on that next week! 

Watch First Lady Michelle Obama talk fruits and vegetables with Big Bird! 
I practiced Hypnobirthing (via Hypnobabies) 3 years ago, and I although I had never known a single person (or celebrity) who had the experience, after considering all other childbirth education models, it was definitely the one that resonated with me the most. Enjoy Lottie Daley's experience about this natural childbirth method that is catching on and becoming a thing. 

I was blessed with a great birth experience. Unfortunately, too many Black women in America lack the opportunity to experience a desirable birth. Filmmaker Paolo Patruno, follows the amazing midwife, Jennie Joseph and her clients, as they search for equitable birth options for their families, in Childbirth in the Shadow of the American Dream . Watch it! Share it! I am thrilled to see a growing body of evidence demonstrating how increasing numbers of Black mothers are benefitting access to midwives and doulas during childbirth, in baby steps toward birth equity, access, and justice, in America.​

Actress Hayden Panttiere and Atomic Kitten star, Natasha Hamilton talk postpartum depression, while this mom talks about much support she needed to finally come to terms with hers, and how her husband used a common quiz to help identify her symptoms. Please be sure to check in with new moms- even the ones who have always had it together- after birth, and again after weaning. Postpartum depression is one of the 6 mental health conditions associated with childbirth, including Perinatal depression, Anxiety, Panic Disorder, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), and Psychosis.

Speaking of stress, there's new information that indicates that survivors of abuse are less likely to begin or sustain breastfeeding. As a lactation counselor, I whenever a woman is having a challenge wrapping her mind around thee idea of nursing her own child, thinking of it as disgusting, or relating it to sex or incest, after a bit more physiologically-based education, I fall back, as I begin to sense a history of abuse. The irony is that many survivors of abuse who have persevered through the early demons, have found that breastfeeding actually helped them begin to heal from the abuse as they turned their shame into power. This is why support around breastfeeding is needed in many areas... including for this mother, who happens to be a physician, whose child's pediatrician missed the warning signs of dehydration, while assuring her that should could produce the milk necessary to sustain her child, a task which she was determined to master. Breastfeeding education and support goes well beyond, "you can do it, Mom!" All providers who touch the mother or baby, would do well to increase his or her knowledge of breastfeeding, and have a lactation professional on-site or on call for mothers in need.

​On a lighter note, check out this mom who used a Victoria's Secrets photo to camouflage her feeding her child... as those images were repeatedly reported on Facebook.
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Maria Corry
​So since my breastfeeding photo which showed NOTHING got reported more than FIVE times, I'm posting this. I bet this won't be reported, because you can see this picture in every mall you step into, huge and blown up outside the store. This is not frowned upon, or ever reported, as it is seen everywhere. But a women nurturing and feeding their baby is looked down on. That is completely absurd! Moms, post your breast selfies below. Nurse in public. People who think breastfeeding is nasty, or looked at sexually is a pedophile for even thinking of it in that way! Breastfeeding is natural, it's what our breasts were meant for! In other countries breastfeeding is praised, and welcomed everywhere! In America, people have so much negative things to say about it! I'm done with this stupid nonsense. I can't believe how much backlash my photo got, but more importantly I got tons of support and I thank you all. And again, BREAST IS BEST!
**EDIT: When I said pedophile, I was just hurt and angered someone was reporting my picture. I think anyone who sees breastfeeding as a sexual act, does have something wrong in their head though. And yes, "fed is best" but it has been proven breastmilk is best for babies. But yes as long as a baby is fed all is well! Hope that cleared up some commotion going on! Thanks for the support!
**** Feel free to share this! Make mothers feel more welcome to nurse their babies wherever they please.
This just tickled me!
Did we miss any great birth or breastfeeding stories this week?! Share them with us now! Have a great weekend!
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Blossom's Buzz

3/6/2016

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As Black History Month Ends and Women's History Month begins, we love this important look at breastfeeding disparities from a historical perspective.

No Matter Your Politics, You've Gotta Love
Boobs For Bernie! 

Girl Next Door Holly Madison Hates Breastfeeding...
but she's doing it for a second time!

Starbucks
Supports Breastfeeding Moms! Very cool! Maybe they will do something similar on this side of the pond!

Co-Sleeping May Help Mother Achieve Breastfeeding Goals... And Get More Sleep. It definitely did for me! We did not begin co-sleeping until 6.5 months. That's when I learned the wonder that is the breastfeeding side-lying position. It's the only way that I ever would have made it as long as we did.

Does Your Baby Love What You Craved? Hyperemesis left us with only Jell-O and wheat toast as dining choices. I haven't bought Jell-O since, and my daughter doesn't love bread. How did this work for your pregnancies and children?

Orgasmic Birth! Is That A Thing?!
Yes! Yes! Yes! Orgasmic Birth is a real thing, performed mostly in the home birth community, by "off-beat" moms. As I childbirth educator, I often say that what got the baby in, will help get the baby out. I am usually referring to nipple stimulation, perineal massage, and intercourse to help induce labor, beyond an estimated due date, or deep breathing and rhythmic pelvic movements during labor. Some women take that advice one step further and try to elicit orgasm during labor. One woman's story created quite the buzz!

So, I used self-hypnosis/ hypnobirthing during my 23 hour labor, which also sounds weird, but it did work. As in, at one point, my monitored contractions were literally "of the chart", as I took entranced, deep breaths, while my husband and nurse asked if I could feel *that* (I couldn't see the monitor). It's a thing. Many doulas and midwives help moms and partners to use TENS units on the back during labor, for pain management. I actually took mine to the hospital, but did not (need to) use it, because the hypnobirthing was working so well. Especially because those complex nerve bundles are multi-functional- which is why the pressure of the baby entering the birth canal, is nearly identical to that of needing to have a bowel movement, I can absolutely see the "neural confusion" aspect of this.

Orgasms help to:
Open the cervix during sex, and the contractions actually cause the cervix to suction in semen, fighting even gravity.
Condition the uterus before delivery, encouraging Braxton-Hicks contractions.
Stimulate a tired uterus into resuming labor.
Restore sensation to an area numb with pain and pressure.
Relax the birth canal, suspends your resistance and relaxes joints.
Expel the afterbirth.
Stop bleeding after delivery.
Recondition the uterus after pregnancy.
Stimulate the release of colostrum.
Let down milk.
Increase milk production.
Release oxytocin

No harm to baby. No harm to mom. I'm good with it.


If Men Could Breastfeed you just know that they would be like this!


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Welcome To Blossom's Buzz! 

3/6/2016

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Moms and other curious minds always tag me in and share with me, posts and pictures that are even loosely related to the work that we do through Blossom. They are always so amusing, beautiful, touching, informative, and thought provoking, that I decided to share my favorite ones here. Enjoy! Please share your faves too!
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    Sharing birth and breastfeeding stories from around the world, in addition to being a maternal wellness consultant, Jada enjoys life as an activist and author, passionate about birth equity and empowerment.

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